'Unpredicting' me...

Hunnies,

Please forgive me for my absence! I wish I could tell you I was living this amazing thing called my life, unfortunately its a lot more boring than you can ever speculate. I had to study for finals, as you know this blog is non profit, lots and lots of costs but literally no monetary benefit. Well,  I can't complain I did not start it because of the money but money is definitely one of my 99 problems. A lot of things have happened-bad and good- in fact you won't believe what I have to say but they are stories for different days.

 The question today is how predictable are you? It all started one night, during a Face time session with my friend, I was recounting the tales of the previous night and something came up about how my roomie could never do something, I wish I could tell you but she might just kill me! She kinda got pissed that we were so sure she wouldn't do it and it made me wonder if its bad to be predictable. I prefer watching Greys anatomy to going to parties, I call my mother everyday, I am constantly thinking of money and I refuse to 'juke' does this make me predictable, I don't know. If you know me, you should know the things I am capable of. I believe it is good to be predictable when it comes to certain things, especially when it comes to ones moral standing; on the other hand, relationships thrive on volatility. Nobody wants a  banal or a "lets fluff the pillows before we do anything" kind of relationship, we all crave excitement and spontaneity.

A predictable person is a responsible person but also kind of a  boring person since he/she reacts to a situation the same way. I took a look at myself found out I am pretty very predictable; so this summer I am "unpredicting" myself. This does not mean I will be celebrating my first mother's day next year, I am very predictable on that issue and it is definitely not happening anytime soon. I will do everything I have always said I will do but never did as I have a reputation of never doing what I say I will do. Wow, that sounds like one of those wordy tongue twisters I had to learn growing up. In hindsight,  people blame their stupid decisions on being spontaneous and it makes me wonder why there is so much hype to be unpredictable. To be honest, I like safe and predictable, no drama plus you know what you are getting but thinking of it we all need drama and a step out of our comfort zone. So go out today and surprise yourself but please don't become a baby mama or papa, do a spontaneous responsible thing!

Please keep the Chibok girls in your prayers and may the audio of that unpredictable but exciting fight between Jay and Solange be released.

Stay Magnificent!
Seunla